Ummul Mo'mineen Hazrat Maymunah bint Al-Harith
Maymunah bint Al-Harith’s (میمونة بنت الحارث) original name was Barrah bint Al-Harith. The Holy
Prophet
changed her name to Maymunah
which meant ‘blessed’. She was one of nine the sisters whom Prophet Muhammad
referred to as ‘The Believing Sisters’.
She was one of those individuals who had embraced
Islam
before Hijrah, but did not migrate to Madinah.
Lineage
She was Maymunah bint Al-Harith ibn Huzn ibn Bujair ibn Al-Hazm ibn Ruwaibah ibn Abdullah ibn Hilal ibn Amir Sa’sa’a ibn Muawiyah ibn Bakr ibn Hawazin ibn Mansoor ibn Ikrama ibn Hafsa ibn Qais Elaan ibn Mudar. Her mother’s name was Hind bint Auf ibn Zuhair ibn Al-Harith ibn Hamata.
Life Before Marriage with the Holy Prophet
In the time of Ignorance (Jahiliyah), she was married to Masood ibn Amr Al-Thaqafi. After his death, she was married to Abu Rahm ibn Abdul Uzzah who also passed away and made her a widow. After that, she lived alone until the Holy
Prophet
came to Makkah for Umrah (the lesser pilgrimage).
Marriage with the Holy Prophet
In 7 A.H., the Holy Prophet gathered around 2000 men and departed for Makkah to perform Umrah (the lesser pilgrimage). They entered Makkah safely, as the
polytheists
had deserted the city, so that the Muslims could safely perform the Umrah.
Many people wished to see
Prophet
Muhammad
, among them was Barrah bint Al-Harith (Maymunah
).
She contacted her sister Umm Al-Fadl and told her that she wanted to marry the Holy Prophet
so that she could have the honor of being his wife. So, she asked Umm Al-Fadl to be her agent and ask the Holy Prophet
for marriage. Umm Al-Fadl told her husband, Abbas ibn Al-Muttalib and asked him to talk to his nephew, Prophet Muhammad
, about the marriage proposal.
Another narration states that Barrah herself went to the Holy Prophet
and offered herself for marriage.
It was on this occasion, that the following verse of the
Holy Quran
was revealed:
…وَامْرَأَةً مُؤْمِنَةً إِنْ وَهَبَتْ نَفْسَهَا لِلنَّبِيِّ إِنْ أَرَادَ النَّبِيُّ أَنْ يَسْتَنْكِحَهَا خَالِصَةً لَكَ مِنْ دُونِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ…50
… and any other believing woman who dedicates herself to the Holy Prophet (for marriage), provided the Holy Prophet (too) has the intention to marry her (so all these are lawful for you. This command is exclusively for you, not for other believers (of the Ummah i.e., Community)
The phrase ‘believing woman who dedicates herself’ refers to that individual who was prepared to give herself in marriage to the Holy
Prophet
without a dower, if he may like to marry her.
Even though Prophet Muhammad
had this permission, still, he married Maymunah (Barra) and gave her 400 dirhams
as dower in the month of Shawwal, 7 A.H.
The marriage took at a place called Sarf, where she had joined the Holy Prophet
along with Prophet Muhammad’s
freed slave, Abu Raaf'i
.
The Holy Prophet
could not marry her in Makkah because the people of Quraysh pointed out that the three days of his stay in Makkah was over, and only that time limit was allowed by the agreement, so he needed to leave. Therefore, Prophet Muhammad
abided by the treaty of Hudaybiyah and left Makkah along with his followers.
According to Al-Asqalani, she was the last woman which the Holy Prophet married and she also had the honor to narrate 13 ahadith of the Holy Prophet . She was a devout Muslim who led a pious life. After the Holy
Prophet
departed from this world, Maymunah
continued his mission by preaching
Islam
and guiding Muslim women regarding their religious affairs.
Demise
She passed away in 51 A.H. and Ibn Abbas led her funeral prayer. She was buried in Sarf, at the spot where the Holy Prophet had set a tent for her at the time of the marriage.